I've wired mine so that my led driving only come on when the high beam are on. When the lights are on low beam it is not possible to have the led driving lights on. I did it this way so when I drive at night I my ding light will turn off automatically. During the day i always ride with my high beams on to be seen by other motorist.
Using the wiring harness you have I connected the red power wire (positive) to the violet wire under the right cowl. The negative wire on the harness goes to the violet wire.
The control switch wiring has two wires. These wires are used to operate the control box to turn the led driving light on. It's basically a relay. One of the wires will go to the blue wire on the Honda connector. The other wire will go to the ground wire on the Honda connector (green wire).
The colour of the wires on the control harness will indicate which is the positive and which is a negative wire. The black will be negative and will connect to green wire on the Honda connector. The remaining wire will go to the blue wire on the Honda connector. The only reason that it matters which way they go is because some relays use a suppression diode.
Hopefully all that is clear.

Thanks for your reply, that is how I want to connect mine, as my daily commute is along dark unlit narrow lanes.
Can you check your post please - you have mentioned the violet wire twice, & is this connection into the 3 pin plug under right cowl.
"I connected the red power wire (positive) to the violet wire under the right cowl. The negative wire on the harness goes to the violet wire."
Think I have this bit right now - I have to do away with the switch, one of these wires will go to the blue wire & the other wire to the green wire in the 3 pin plug.
I do not get the power supply from either the battery or one of the aux plugs, only the 3 pin plug is used for all connections ?
Getting there slowly lol, thanks for all your help. Just want to be 100% sure I get it right first time when I get delivery and can fit it.